We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. – Romans 5:3-4
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One of the main things I hear as I go through life with this invisible illness is that we are given this burden so that we might grow stronger. Becoming stronger through struggles… let’s look closer at what the scripture actually says regarding this idea. The above scripture was the closest I could find for this statement that people make. But what does it truly say? It says that our trials and problems will help us to develop endurance, not strength. Then the scripture goes on to say that this endurance we are developing will help to develop strength… of character. This character will in turn strengthen… our hope.
The truth is that we will never be strong enough on our own! Life wasn’t designed that way. We are meant to lean not on our own strength, but on God’s… EVERY. TIME. The LORD gives his people strength. – Psalm 28:8 Even in Old Testament times, when strength was required, God was the one supplying. Strength was never found in numbers, or training, or abilities. It certainly wasn’t found in trials or suffering. The purpose of dependence on God was and still is, that we can then give Him the glory when others notice our supposed strength.
Just as with stillness, God is the giver. All we need do is trust, endure, and ask. We must develop our character during times of trial, focusing on God and never losing our hope. As we do this, it’s like a cycle. We endure, character develops, hope is refreshed, and strength is renewed… which in turn helps us to endure, so that the entire circle begins again.
So the next time you hear how your suffering is building strength, just smile a secret smile and know that your strength will indeed be built, but not by your own design or efforts. Give God the glory, then use that reminder to send up a plea to God to help you endure… and start the cycle anew.
Dear God, what a wondrous plan you have designed for us. Help us to look to you for our strength, and never to lean on ourselves or others. We know you are the giver of all good things and that you will provide. In Jesus’ Name, Amen…
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Shelly
